Thursday, June 24, 2010

How To Talk To A Widower

Jonathan Tropper
Bantam Dell A Division of Random House, Inc. 
Published July 2007, 341 pages
ISBN 978-0-385-33891-2
From my personal library
Rating: 4 - Really liked this read

"I had a wife. Her name was Hailey. Now she's gone. And so am I."
This is Doug's mantra. He is 29 years old. He had been married to Hailey for 2 years when she died in a plane crash. Hailey has been dead for a year now and Doug is trying to cope with himself, her house in suburban Westchester and her teenage son Russ, both of which he inherited. He is pretty much making a hash of things. He self-medicates: drinks a lot, smokes a little weed, eats nothing but frozen artery-clogging food and hides from friends and family.
Then one day his twin sister Claire arrives on his lawn and announces her plans to patch him up and push him out into the rest of his life. Doug reluctantly agrees to the plan.
What happens after this is usually hilarious and often bittersweet, involving
Russ, Doug's boss and job, his family, a few blind dates, a wedding and a shooting. But relax, the comedy is not irresponsible or disrespectful. Doug does not suddenly snap out of his depression but evolves realistically over the course of another year. This is a satisfying read. You don't have to work too hard but there's still plenty of substance. It will leave a smile on your face.


  1. This book sounds like one I would enjoy! I will read it soon.

  2. A little late in the game but I am going on a search for this book tomorrow! :D